We are following a blog about another young Canadian girl (Nadia) who is afflicted with DKC that is also having to go through blood, platelet, and bone marrow transplants. While reading about Nadia (nadiasquest.ca), I noticed that her parents thanked their donors every time they received blood, platelets, etc… This enthusiasm to continuously thank the donation community really struck a cord with me. Why hadn’t Beth and I been so generous in our thanks for these donations? We certainly are very grateful!
In thinking this over, it occurred to me that in the current healthcare system, there is massive disconnect between those who give and those who receive. This is done to provide security and privacy for both the givers and the receivers. On a day-to-day basis, it is very hard to recognize that the blood or platelets being given to Clark are from a real human being (that took time out of their day to draw blood or platelets) and from an organization dedicated to collecting, testing and treating the product once they get it. It’s a massive engine of activity to get product for Clark that appears to simply come from a closet in the back of the hospital.
So, having been reminded of this, I wanted to issue some long overdue thank yous.
First and foremost, to the blood and platelet donors. Thank you very much for taking time out of your busy day to make it to a clinic and donate. Clark would not have survived this long without your help. Your effort, has literally, saved the life of our young boy. Thank you!!!
Secondly, to our bone marrow donor (currently only known to us as a “European” donor). Thank you so much for being willing to go through the process and procedures required to give bone marrow. We are very aware how disruptive, time consuming, and (in some cases) how painful it can be to give bone marrow. Thank you so very much for your willingness to go through this procedure. You are saving the length and quality of life for our young boy. He would not be able to live and thrive without you. Thank you!!
Third, to our doctors and nursing staff who literally number somewhere between 40-50 people. To the doctors who have been patient with our questions and diligent on finding the correct diagnosis, thank you!! To the nurses who have made our hospital stays comfortable and have been patient with all the questions and needs of both of our sons, thank you so very much!!
Fourth, to my mother. Thank you for being willing to put your life on hold while Beth and I go through this painful process. Without you, Beth and I wouldn’t be able to survive as a couple. You have made it possible to both spend time with one another, and spend time with Clark and Connor. We would not have been able to get this far (much less through the coming BMT) without you. Thank you so much!!
Fifth, to Connor. I know times are tough right now, and you don’t get to see mom and dad as much as you used to. We are so sorry that we don’t get to see you while we are in the hospital with Clark, but your positive attitude and willingness to work with the current situation is very impressive to us. Thank you for never complaining about mom and dad having to leave, and thank you for being so overjoyed to see us when we are able to make it home. We love you so much, and will do our very best to make it up to you the best we can. Thank you!!
Finally, to our extended friends and family who have given us financial and emotional support. Beth and I could never have imagined life taking a turn like this, and we continue to be amazed at the outpouring of support and willingness to jump in and help. And we can use all of it. Thank you so much for all your help and your kind and positive thoughts!!

While we expect to have a steady stream of very specific appreciations as this process goes forward, it will be impossible to thank everyone, so know these efforts are far from exhaustive.
And just in case – thank you to anyone we may have missed!! Clark as well as Beth and I, are eternally grateful to everything you have done.